{"id":2821,"date":"2010-01-23T15:48:31","date_gmt":"2010-01-23T07:48:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/?p=2821"},"modified":"2020-03-09T23:32:57","modified_gmt":"2020-03-09T15:32:57","slug":"pemalu-lambat-dapat-jodoh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/pemalu-lambat-dapat-jodoh\/","title":{"rendered":"Pemalu lambat dapat jodoh?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/kawen.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2825\" title=\"kawen\" src=\"http:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/kawen.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/kawen.jpg 400w, https:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/kawen-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>Aku dulu kat sekolah seorang yang pemalu. Orang pemalu biasanya tak diangkat jadi pemimpin. Jadi masa sekolah dulu aku cumalah pelajar biasa dan bukan pengawas. Pernah jadi pengawas pusat sumber dulu mungkin disebabkan oleh keputusan exam yang baik kot. Kalau menyingkap balik zaman sekolah dulu, memang banyak kenangan pahit dan manis.<\/p>\n<p>Sifat malu aku berterusan aku rasa sampai lah aku mula nak cari kerja. Sifat malu ni juga datang dengan kurang keyakinan diri. Masa aku mula-mula cari kerja dulu, aku tak dapat. Mungkin bos yang interview aku tu tengok aku macam malu-malu dan macam tak yakin. Dan aku tak dapat kerja tu pada mulanya. Tapi disebabkan aku tak berputus asa, peluang sekali lagi aku dapat kerja tu lepas interview kali kedua dengan syarikat yang sama.<\/p>\n<p>Kalau dulu kat sekolah, aku akan berdebar-debar kalau cakap dengan perempuan( serius). Tambah pulak kalau perempuan tu yang kita suka. Nak cakap kat dia kita suka dia malu. Haish..<\/p>\n<p>Tu cerita dulu. Cerita sekarang ni malu tu dah beransur hilang. Bukannya tak ada sampai tak tahu malu, tapi malu dalam keadaan tertentu la. Yang berpada-pada. Aku dah buat mindset yang malu tu cuma wujud dalam kepala kita aja. Serius berkesan. Kalau sekarang, nak cakap dengan customer pun tak ada masalah. Tak ada malu lagi. Cakap dengan customer bukan Melayu biasanya aku cakap dalam bahasa Inggeris tanpa masalah. Boleh bercakap dengan yakinnya. Sampaikan ada customer aku dulu menawarkan aku kerja jadi penterjemah persidangan, tapi aku tolak sebab aku tak minat dengan kerja macam tu. Aku lebih suka pada bidang teknikal.<\/p>\n<p>Setelah aku dapat track balik member-member lama aku kat <a title=\"Member Facebook\" href=\"http:\/\/inertz.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/social-engineering-untuk-track-kawan-lama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Facebook<\/a>, memasing aku tengok dah beranak pinak. Yela, kalau yang pompuan tu tahun ni masing-masing dah menjangkau umur 30 tahun, kalau tak kawin lagi tak logik la. Budak-budak sekolah aku masa 97 dulu memang cun2. Cuma aku je la bujang lagi. Lambat sikit kot. Maklum la pemalu, lambat dapat jodoh.<\/p>\n<p>p\/s: Pemalu lebih baik dari tak tau malu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aku dulu kat sekolah seorang yang pemalu. Orang pemalu biasanya tak diangkat jadi pemimpin. Jadi masa sekolah dulu aku cumalah pelajar biasa dan bukan pengawas. Pernah jadi pengawas pusat sumber dulu mungkin disebabkan oleh keputusan exam yang baik kot. Kalau menyingkap balik zaman sekolah dulu, memang banyak kenangan pahit dan manis. 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